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September 09, 2008

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The social boundary issue was the hardest one for me. I practice in a town of 14,000. I have 4 children, and am involved in my church, the kids' schools, some community activities, and I now know an awful lot of people. Of course, I then have acquired patients who met me first socially, and also patients who have become acquaintances and friends. I also am someone who tends to become emotionally involved. I have finally reached a point of comfort - I think it's okay to have some emotional attachment/involvement as long as you are aware of it and are careful with it, but if it clouds your clinical judgement it's better to refer the patient on. Knowing and caring about my patients is the thing I like best about rural practice, and the thing my clients like best about my practice is the chance to know their physician well.
Sometimes it is so tiring, though, to have very few friends in the "outside world." I have found some outlet in online community, and maintain some outside friendships, but those real life outside friends require a lot of planning to meet up with since I live in the middle of nowhere now!
Absolutely excellent advice about not taking on every dissatisfied difficult patient - wish I'd read that one early on! My partners straight out of residency encouraged me to take on these difficult patients and what a hassle to have your whole day filled with patients you don't really want to see and don't know what to do with!
On the other hand, knowing my clients well makes it harder sometimes to give bad news. I need to call someone right now and tell her she needs a breast biopsy, and she also had a very sad and traumatic ruptured ectopic pregnancy this year and I'm really dreading having to make the call (I also attended her healthy 2 year old's birth, and care for her husband as well, so these are folks I know well.) Sometimes, it was easier in residency with patients I had much more emotional distance from.
Sometimes I daydream about academic medicine - I miss having more academic focus, and more intellectual/academic colleagues. I did a medical ethics fellowship prior to residency and early this year I returned to their case conference and it was so nice to spend an academic day - I think I have to do more of that in the future.

Some good advice.

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